Be Your Own Valentine with Plus Size Underthings from TomboyX

Happy Almost Valentine's Day! As you've probably already gathered, Valentine's Day is one of my favorite holidays. This holiday isn't just an opportunity to stock up on plus size lingerie, but it's also good time to show yourself some love. Today, I've partnered with underwear line TomboyX to show you that underthings don't need to be for anyone but you!

When I posted last week about six places to shop for plus size lingerie, there was one comment that stood out to me and it started with, "I don't have anyone to wear lingerie for..." This comment caught my eye because I know how easy it came be to caught in the mindset that wearing cute lingerie and celebrating Valentine's Day can only occur in the context of a romantic relationship. As someone who has spent most of my VDay's solo, I can tell you that that's not true. The only Valentine you need, is YOU! 

Be Your Own Valentine with Plus Size Underthings from TomboyX
Lingerie is such a personal experience. Sexy means something different to everyone. Some people prioritize comfort over aesthetics while others are looking for a combination of both (like TomboyX's Winged Heart Print Trunks and matching soft bra). Being your own Valentine gives you the opportunity to wear something that feels good to you and think through what that may be without anyone else's input.

Be Your Own Valentine with Plus Size Underthings from TomboyX

As much as I love lace and traditionally feminine lingerie fits, there's something I really love about wearing something made from stretch cotton that's just comfy. This TomboyX set features a silky soft band that pretty much makes you forget you're wearing it. If you fall asleep in this bra while Netflix and chilling by your damn self, you won't wake up with any kind of irritation. For reference, I am wearing the 3X bra and 4X underwear. I like my briefs to fit high-waisted so I size up for the extra room. 

Be Your Own Valentine with Plus Size Underthings from TomboyX

Even though I am spending this Valentine's Day attached, I am taking with me the lessons I learned from all of my single Valentine's Days. I am taking the opportunity to appreciate all that my body has endured  I am looking at my body with a lens of self love rather than through anyone else's gaze. And most of all, I am practicing a pattern of positivity that I can continue throughout the year! 

What makes you feel good on Valentine's Day? What reminders are most important to you? Let me know in the comments below and make sure you shop TomboyX's new Valentine's Day Collection